| Nov. 6th, 2009 @ 08:46 am Whatever thoughts |
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Current Mood:  thoughtful
I find it strange... Thing is I'm not exactly what you would call confident, in a lot of things, at all. I realize this is not outwardly apparent to most people, but that's because I make an effort never to act on those feelings because nothing progressive comes out of it. Better to continue, even when lacking confidence in the matter, than stopping. And yet at the same time, I'm very strong willed. In the sense that I can't really be swayed from what I am, and that I know what I am (if that makes any sense) Seriously, low self confidence and strong will wtf how does that even work.
Speaking of never acting, a friendly piece of advice. Never ever make actions based soly on the impulses of emotions. No matter how angry, sad or hurt you feel, acting on that is usually never the best choice, and you will more than likely regret it eventually. Rant about it personally, or to a few people, scream, just do something to get the emotions out, but just do not make any actions on it. Always give yourself time until your mind has cleared and you can think on things as rationally and objectively as possible before responding on a situation, the results will always be much better this way.
And another thought, why are people so afraid of honestly and truth? I will never understand this, especially when people knowingly choose to not to hear the honest response if they have the choice. Sure some truth is not exactly 'nice' and doesn't give you warm fuzzies all the time but isn't better to know things up front and sooner than being dragged on by a lie for several years, or even for shorter lengths of time. But then again, I've always been revolted by the concept of living a lie. (granted that also entails aspects of not being true to yourself, but even so)
Oh yeah I did more of these
 So at least this entry isn't totally pointless. |